Relationship 101: Do things together that you genuinely enjoy.❤️ While “date nights” are popularly offered as a tip for struggling couples, Wachtel says the pressure and obligation of forced time together every week can zap the fun out of what’s meant to be enjoyable. Instead of obligatory date nights, try coming up with things that you genuinely enjoy doing together, and do more of those. #africandating #datingtips