Most Pastor's wives are private and have everyday lives like everyone else. They have feeling, emotions, fears, hurts and pain like everyone else. They they are judge by many. Beinf married to a Pastor quickly tured their life from private to public. Most of our relationships will still have a degree of distance. Pastor's wives need encouragement. It is one of the most challenging areas of my life... I pray daily for Gods super to be put on my natural for the Task at hand. ~LadyArdysleslie