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Unhappy Marriage

Marrying The Wrong Person

Falling Back In Love

When Things Go Wrong

Successful Relationships

Understanding Yourself

Marriage Helper

Marriage Helper

If your marriage feels broken or like it’s falling apart, stop what you’re doing and watch this video ✋ At Marriage Helper, we dedicate our time and resources to saving marriages and families, and we want yours to last a lifetime. In this article, our Director of Coaching, Melody, shares the 4️⃣ steps to fixing a broken marriage. There IS hope - no matter what has happened. We're here to help you put things back together. ❤️ Broken Marriage, Saving A Marriage, Marriage Life, Marriage And Family, Feeling Broken, Falling Apart, Fix You, Divorce

Broken Marriage

Saving A Marriage

Marriage And Family

If your marriage feels broken or like it’s falling apart, stop what you’re doing and watch this video ✋ At Marriage Helper, we dedicate our time and resources to saving marriages and families, and we want yours to last a lifetime. In this article, our Director of Coaching, Melody, shares the 4️⃣ steps to fixing a broken marriage. There IS hope - no matter what has happened. We're here to help you put things back together. ❤️

Marriage Helper

Marriage Helper

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Positive Mindset

Positive Attitude

Four Letter Words

Feeling Hopeless

Finding Happiness

You want to fix your unhappy marriage. But how? How can you be happy in the middle of your marital turmoil? 🤔 The truth is we determine where our happiness comes from. We're not saying there aren't influences. Trust us; there are. But ultimately we decide. You have the ability to be in charge of your own destiny, and of your own life. In this article, we will cover some practical steps to finding happiness in yourself, and your marriage even when you feel hopeless ❤️

Marriage Helper

Marriage Helper

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Best Relationship

Do you feel like your spouse never understands what you’re trying to say to them? Have you found yourself struggling to communicate clearly to each other? If you’re trying to get your spouse to understand you in the best way possible and don’t know how, this article is for you. Learn how to be understood starting now ❤️

Marriage Helper

Marriage Helper

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How Are You Feeling

Thinking Of You

Improve Yourself

Is your relationship in a rut? Are you thinking, “I don’t even know how it got here. So, how in the world are we going to get out of this?” In this article, our certified Marriage Helper coach, Melody Oseguera, shares 5 ways to improve your marriage that will help you get your relationship out of the rut.

Marriage Helper

Marriage Helper

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New Relationships

Is marriage worth it?🧐 Are you trying to decide whether or not you should try to make your marriage work? Or are you considering cutting your losses and moving on to a new relationship that might be easier in the future? In this article, Kimberly Beam Holmes shares her expert opinion based on data and years of experience in working with marriages. PLUS, she'll provide advice on how to move forward in your relationship if you choose to do so ❤️

Marriage Helper

Marriage Helper

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Love And Marriage

Magazine Articles

Lust—that's a powerful word 😳 Just put that on a title anywhere; a book or magazine article, a movie, and people have to check it out to see what it is because we think we have some understanding of what lust is. Yet, at the same time, people can confuse lust and love. But there's actually a pretty big difference. Read this article to see the biggest differences between lust and love ❤️

Marriage Helper

Marriage Helper

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Feeling Unwanted

Have you been trying to get your husband's attention but nothing seems to work? 😩 You just want them to want to spend time with you.. or even just notice you. It can leave you feeling unwanted, unloved, and unaccepted in your relationship 💔 In this article, Marriage Helper's CEO, Kimberly Beam Holmes, is going to share with you things that typically don't work ❌ when trying to get your husband's attention and what you SHOULD be doing instead! ✅

Marriage Helper

Marriage Helper

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When it comes to relationships, we all understand the word cheating... Cheaters are people who are talked about. People often say things like, "Once a cheater, always a cheater." Which is actually not necessarily true. But when it comes to micro-cheating, things can get a little more confusing. In this article, Dr. Joe Beam provides insight into what exactly micro-cheating is and what you should do if you believe your spouse is doing it.

Marriage Helper

Marriage Helper

If you have a dominating and controlling husband, then this article is for you. If you’re trying to find your independence and feel valued for who you are as a person, we want to help. Stop It, Narcissist, Finding Yourself, Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Finding Yourself

Narcissistic Personality Disorder

If you have a dominating and controlling husband, then this article is for you. If you’re trying to find your independence and feel valued for who you are as a person, we want to help.

Marriage Helper

Marriage Helper

A woman’s intuition is never wrong…or is it? Is your husband lying, acting shady, or maybe you think he’s doing something that he shouldn’t be doing? Maybe you think there are signs that your husband is cheating on you. I’m going to tell you some things that you can do. And I’m also going to tell you the basic things you should look for if you think your husband is cheating. To Tell, Intuition, You Can Do, Cheating, Something To Do, Acting

Something To Do

A woman’s intuition is never wrong…or is it? Is your husband lying, acting shady, or maybe you think he’s doing something that he shouldn’t be doing? Maybe you think there are signs that your husband is cheating on you. I’m going to tell you some things that you can do. And I’m also going to tell you the basic things you should look for if you think your husband is cheating.

Marriage Helper

Marriage Helper

So you’ve discovered that your spouse wants out of your marriage. This can be an extremely troubling time. Maybe you’re confused right now. I don’t know where you are, but I want you to know that you’re not alone. Thousands, even millions of people have gone through this, and I want you to know there is hope. Now, although I can’t tell you how to stop your divorce, what I can tell you is how to build a better relationship so that your spouse may reconsider filing. I Can Tell, I Don T Know, Divorce Process, Falling Out Of Love, People Fall In Love, Best Positions

Divorce Process

Falling Out Of Love

People Fall In Love

So you’ve discovered that your spouse wants out of your marriage. This can be an extremely troubling time. Maybe you’re confused right now. I don’t know where you are, but I want you to know that you’re not alone. Thousands, even millions of people have gone through this, and I want you to know there is hope. Now, although I can’t tell you how to stop your divorce, what I can tell you is how to build a better relationship so that your spouse may reconsider filing.

Marriage Helper

Marriage Helper

Many people have asked us about this topic, and in fact, it’s something that my own marriage has gone through. Feeling Stressed, Stressed Out, Long Weekend, I Cant, Got Married, Shit Happens

Feeling Stressed

Many people have asked us about this topic, and in fact, it’s something that my own marriage has gone through.

It seems like the best marriages are the ones where they say, “We never fight.” Or, that they, “Always get along and always agree.” But we’re here to say that these experiences are not healthy (and, they’re not realistic). You need to have conflict with your spouse, but in a way that DOESN’T destroy your relationship. Saving Your Marriage, What Is Smart, John Gottman, Rules Of Engagement, Get What You Want, Conflict Resolution, Good Communication

Saving Your Marriage

Rules Of Engagement

Get What You Want

Conflict Resolution

Good Communication

It seems like the best marriages are the ones where they say, “We never fight.” Or, that they, “Always get along and always agree.” But we’re here to say that these experiences are not healthy (and, they’re not realistic). You need to have conflict with your spouse, but in a way that DOESN’T destroy your relationship.

We’ll explain 3 things you may not know about counseling and how it works so you can decide if it’s what you should do to save your marriage. Define Success, Getting Divorced, Having An Affair, Getting Back Together

Getting Divorced

Having An Affair

Getting Back Together

We’ll explain 3 things you may not know about counseling and how it works so you can decide if it’s what you should do to save your marriage.

One of the BIGGEST things people are doing in their marriage (that they don’t even realize that they’re doing) that is hurting their marriage is this: PUSH Behaviors. Stop Talking, Talking To You, Feeling Betrayed, Control Issues, Betrayal, Behavior

Feeling Betrayed

One of the BIGGEST things people are doing in their marriage (that they don’t even realize that they’re doing) that is hurting their marriage is this: PUSH Behaviors.

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Communication In Marriage

How to communicate while social distancing...

Sometimes my husband tries to tell me how to do stuff and this really gets on my nerves; how can I tell him? Unsolicited Advice, Mental And Emotional Health, It Gets Better, Listening To You, Self Confidence, Got Him

Unsolicited Advice

Mental And Emotional Health

Listening To You

Self Confidence

Sometimes my husband tries to tell me how to do stuff and this really gets on my nerves; how can I tell him?

What’s occurring here is that you individually or both of you are doing something referred to as the ‘Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse’. You are using contempt, criticism, stonewalling, or defensiveness. By so doing, rather than actually communicating with each other, you each get angrier. Talk Anymore, Horsemen Of The Apocalypse, The Four, What Can I Do, Facial Expressions

Horsemen Of The Apocalypse

Facial Expressions

What’s occurring here is that you individually or both of you are doing something referred to as the ‘Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse’. You are using contempt, criticism, stonewalling, or defensiveness. By so doing, rather than actually communicating with each other, you each get angrier.

EVERYONE should have fights in their marriage. (Okay, we know this sounds pretty shocking, but there’s a reason why we say this.) Here’s the thing, conflict in a marriage is healthy when you feel secure enough to disagree with your spouse. And the truth is, fights do not ruin your marriage. The failure to reconnect AFTER a fight is what can ruin your marriage. Feeling Loved, Relationship Issues, Marriage Problems, Hard Truth, Finding Peace

Relationship Issues

Marriage Problems

EVERYONE should have fights in their marriage. (Okay, we know this sounds pretty shocking, but there’s a reason why we say this.) Here’s the thing, conflict in a marriage is healthy when you feel secure enough to disagree with your spouse. And the truth is, fights do not ruin your marriage. The failure to reconnect AFTER a fight is what can ruin your marriage.

It’s very common- searching for exact words to say (and exact words not to say) in order to keep your spouse from leaving- or to win your spouse back. In fact, many things out there claim there is “one word,” or there is “one phrase” you can use to win your spouse back. Here’s the hard truth: there is no exact word or phrase. But here’s the good news: there are things you can do if you’re in this situation, there is hope! Marriage Advice, Losing Someone, Be With Someone, What You Can Do, Emotional Pain

Marriage Advice

Be With Someone

What You Can Do

It’s very common- searching for exact words to say (and exact words not to say) in order to keep your spouse from leaving- or to win your spouse back. In fact, many things out there claim there is “one word,” or there is “one phrase” you can use to win your spouse back. Here’s the hard truth: there is no exact word or phrase. But here’s the good news: there are things you can do if you’re in this situation, there is hope!

In this article, I give you crucial information that you need to understand- and implement- if your marriage is in trouble. (Either a little trouble or a lot of trouble.) These principles are extremely important either way. What I teach you’re here will sound simple, but when you implement it, you’ll find that it will take real effort. It’s not a magic pill. It’s the beginning of a process for rescuing your marriage that IF ANYTHING WORKS, THIS WILL. Negative Emotions, Love You, Teaching

Negative Emotions

In this article, I give you crucial information that you need to understand- and implement- if your marriage is in trouble. (Either a little trouble or a lot of trouble.) These principles are extremely important either way. What I teach you’re here will sound simple, but when you implement it, you’ll find that it will take real effort. It’s not a magic pill. It’s the beginning of a process for rescuing your marriage that IF ANYTHING WORKS, THIS WILL.

When we become comfortable in our relationships, it’s so easy to start focusing on all of the negatives that people do, and assuming the worst about them.... Take A Step Back, Take That, Positive Psychology, To Focus, Washing Clothes

Take A Step Back

Positive Psychology

Washing Clothes

When we become comfortable in our relationships, it’s so easy to start focusing on all of the negatives that people do, and assuming the worst about them....

“I changed who I was to appease my wife to avoid arguments. Now she wants a divorce because I’m a wimp. Now what? Now if I speak my mind, she thinks I’m being a jerk.” Now What, I Want A Divorce, Strong Guy, Behavior Modification, You Matter, Back Off, It's Meant To Be

I Want A Divorce

Behavior Modification

It's Meant To Be

“I changed who I was to appease my wife to avoid arguments. Now she wants a divorce because I’m a wimp. Now what? Now if I speak my mind, she thinks I’m being a jerk.”