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If you’re going to thrive in a long-term committed relationship, to have things get better and better over time- rather than drifting into a default mode where you are on each other’s nerves or worse, at each other’s throats, then you better bust out the healthy HABITS for keeping things happy and hot. Build a relationship HABIT of TAKING AIM at what you BOTH want, invest your intention, attention, and action into improving rather than fixing your marriage, then partnership will ONLY get better.
Life HAPPENS. Relationships can be HARD. That is pretty foundational. Stop focusing on the circumstances of your problems or conflicts. The PRO-ACTIVE approach when you invest in intimacy as a habit draws you together as allies transform your differences into assets, and creates more of what you want in love and in life. Stop trying to fix the problems or getting stuck in the circumstances of who did or said what and who is to blame or even who should fix it.
Love without expectations, is that even possible? The answer is yes once you know how. If you want to love without expectation, then be honest about what you really want, practice compassion, let go of the the things that are not within your control and learn to be more appreciative of what is right in front of you. Don't try to change the very person that you fell in love with. As people would say "Love your partner most, when they least deserve it. Because that is when they need it most."
You could try to explain your case to your beloved until you’re blue in the face. If they don’t feel heard and listened to, all the logic in the world isn’t going to restore connection and partnership between you. Remember… Your beloved needs your love the MOST when they deserve it the LEAST. Your behavior is NOT dictated by their behavior. It is dictated by your character. And hopefully to your commitment to love and quality communication. #RelationshipFunandGames #SeasonofPassion
Men and women are DIFFERENT. Every INDIVIDUAL is different. And when it comes to sex, even every MOMENT is different. What was super hot last week might be a total turn-off today. Once you embrace that we are NOT the SAME and begin to explore the VAST and VARIED TERRAIN of your beloved’s likes and dislikes, turn ons and triggers, a whole new world opens up. #RelationshipFunandGames #SeasonofPassion
A great gardening quote: "Remember that children, marriages, and flower gardens reflect the kind of care they get"