Commitment Creates Method
We didn't want to have our wedding vows long forgotten. We wanted to LIVE them. This month's vow is all about HONOR and speaking highly of each other. Check out the new blog on 3 Tips to Honoring Your Beloved and Your Relationship. How will YOU bring honor to your relationship today? How will YOU praise your beloved? #HonorYourBeloved #VowoftheMonth #SeasonOfPlay #Purposlay #LoveBetter #ForBetterLove
Promises are powerful. But only if you keep them ALIVE and in ACTION. That's why Raj and I wrote 12 wedding vows, one to focus on each month. This month's wedding vow/promise/game is the cherry on top of our 12 promises... So here we are, 11 years into our marriage and loving how we LIVE into our vow of the month, every month, every year so that over time, our relationship gets BETTER and BETTER, just when everyone expects it to get worse and worse. #lovebydesign
Promises are powerful. But only if you keep them ALIVE and in ACTION. That's why Raj and I wrote 12 wedding vows, one to focus on each month. This month's vow... "I promise to love your loved ones as my own." While there are no magic wands, and we both have some hurdles in our own and each other's families, itâs this vow and investing our intention, attention, and action towards honoring this commitment that has made this QUALITY of relationships a reality.
Va Va Vows! I love the practice of keeping our vows alive, expressed and evolving year after year. This month's wedding vow is... "I Promise To Breathe Deep, Get Off It First, Especially When It Is Difficult" It's our most difficult vow, so we're leaning into love this month by creating a new Game to play. We're calling it... "1-2-3 Off It! Prove it!" Stay tuned for a new blog this week on this vow and our new Game. #SeasonofPlay #123OffIt #VavaVows #RelationshipFunandGames
When forced confinement came on so suddenly due to #coronavirus outbreak, fights and arguments become inevitable during this time. When you find yourself and your partner in this position, don't let it escalate. Here's how you can stop this as soon as it starts by watching this tip called STOP. SHIFT. START. Watch the video.
Wouldn't it be easier (and more enjoyable) to focus on solutions and where your visions are ALIGNED (and how to get there as PARTNERS), rather than getting "stuck in the muck" or problem pathologizing your conflicts? INVEST in INTIMACY with a forward focus by creating a Shared Relationship Vision. Either read the blog and dive in on your own or if personalized support better suits you, then schedule a complimentary coaching call today to see if there is a good fit.
VOW OF THE MONTH: APRIL We're human and have our dark moments, especially in the current virus climate. Yet for the most part, we don't waste our energy "dissect dramas" focusing on blame and the past. OR getting sucked into the fear. We like to get FORWARD FOCUSED, make plans and agreements then put HABITS and reminders in place to keep it fresh. We call these PEACE PRACTICES. And we can use them NOW more than ever.
It's important to celebrate the milestones in your relationship. March is Raj & I's wedding anniversary! What a delightful DOZEN years it has been being married to Raj. We're celebrating that we didn't just survive and settle for "making it this far," we're THRIVING 12 years in. This month, our wedding vow is all about INSTIGATING AFFECTION. Perfect for the Season Of PASSION we're in right now at Relationship Fun and Games. #RelationshipFunandGames #VowoftheMonth
What if you could end an argument before it even got started. Or just skip it entirely! AND what if you could not only end the argument, you could turn it into intimacy and even fun instead? #RelationshipFunandGames #HowToAvoidArgumentOnRamps #FightsCleanAsItStarts
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