Narcissists constantly lie, exaggerate, and distort the truth to make you look crazy, abusive and bad. They provoke and bully, and do everything in their will to make you lose your temper in front of family and friends. They want you to look bad, whilst they act the victim. This tactics is called: Projective identification and Baiting. It's deceitful and treacherous.
How to Attract a Narcissist Back Into Your Life - Kim Saeed: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery
Wondering how to win a narcissist back after devaluation? If you’re asking this question, perhaps the narcissist in your life is giving you the silent treatment or has discarded you for another source of supply. Or, maybe you left them after realizing they would never stop the emotional abuse,
Silent treatment. Withholding affection. Using sex as a weapon of punishment. Spreading lies and deceit about me so you could save face for what you did to destroy our marriage. You're a pathetic, miserable, cunt.